There is no right answer
I saw this phrase twice today. Third times a charm.1+1=2... not 4 or 7 or 23.... right. I get it. But that's not what I'm talking about.
There is no right answer when it comes to...
Just about everything that's human. People have certain behaviors and dispositions that change from minute to minute. We have whims that pass through us and are fogotten a moment later. We like to be seduced.
We like shiny objects, things that make sense, things that don't make sense. We want our hearts to skip a beat or gasp for air. We want to feel, deeply feel, like we are doing the right thing. We need to flow.
Flow just happens. It forgets the thinking mind. And it moves past it. It allows everything and everyone to exist and you react with love for yourself first and other next, in my humble opinion. You learn how to protect yourself and stand with dignity in flow. Then you shower other with your love and understand or even anger and frustration... now that's grace. Especially if it wakes them up!
But what do we know?